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So...it turned out to not work so well as a good luck charm, and I mostly shaved the beard off. I've now changed over to the "evil alternate universe" look and kept a goatee. It's...interesting for sure. Mostly in that it has all the frustrations of a beard but twice the maintenance. I may be a little harsh to my facial hair - I haven't gotten rid of the goatee yet, so it can't be that bad. Lissa seems to particularly like it, so we shall see if it sticks around.
In not so surprising other news, I think I'm feeling a little overwhelmed by current events in politics. Cap and Trade and the issues with the Inspector Generals have really been chafing at me, and it's been frustrating to find little common opinion on the topics with my liberal friends. The recent insanity of Mark Sanford - I mean, holy cow, did that really happen? - has helped eased tensions somewhat, but I have a feeling I'll duck most political conversations in the near future to keep myself out of trouble.
Work is still a grind, life's been busy, and I need to post more. I hope all is well with you, too.
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So...about a week ago I decided to start growing a beard for the Stanley Cup playoffs. This would be my first beard ever. It's now just a hair shorter than long enough to obviously be a beard, and I've discovered that my genetics have played a cruel joke by making much of the hairs on my chin blond and red. The hair on top of my head is dark brown. I do not understand this at all.
I may take pictures of this exercise in superstition, but I'm at least going to wait until I get to the point where my beard is actually making me look even younger than I look without it (For reference, that's subtract 10 years for without a beard, and subtract 15 years or so for with a beard. Gah!).
Also, it does finally stop itching after about four or five days. Thank goodness.
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I know I'm tremendously guilty of not posting enough. I know I whimper and complain about my lack of posting every time I post. I may well just make these first two sentences a static header for me.
I've discovered that the benefit of button-fly jeans is entirely on the removal side. Sure, it takes a lot of finger fumbling to work the five or six buttons into place to hold your jeans together, and that's kind of a pain. A "normal" pair of jeans requires two simple motions: a zip up and a single button close held close for you already by the zipper. However, a well-worn pair of button fly jeans appears to be the most efficient way to quickly open your pants as a single sideways pull at the top of the pants tends to pull apart every button at once. All of that tedious prep time for a half-second faster quick removal may seem pretty silly, but I can think of at least one example where it makes a world of difference.
Variations of the story start with an eternally long conference call, a large coke from lunch, and continuous input requested from upper management. Then again, I think my bladder may just be trying to force the flight reaction my brain already has when my team collectively sets aside reason. Button-fly jeans for either reason are a sweet relief.
Okay, I'll be honest; Now I can think of two examples.
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![[info]](http://l-stat.livejournal.com/img/userinfo.gif) dexeron has written a nice summary of many things that are wrong with Twitter, and what ends up making it fail as a communication tool.
I like my friends that have Twitter, but I have to guiltily admit that I also imagine the other side of the conversation to always be the most embarassing and inappropriate of possible responses.
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I've been very busy, and it's late tonight and the girls are still up, so this will be quick. Tonight I got this ten second burst from Megan about our dog Dizzy:
"I don't think Dizzy is going to get any presents this year because she doesn't believe in Santa Clause. (Pause) Because she's a dog."
...and then as I was typing that out, apparently Dizzy got into some kind of mess that led to this conversation:
Rob: Um, I think there's something hanging off the back of Dizzy.
Lissa: Uh oh.
Megan: Is it black?
Rob: (wtf?) Um...no.
Megan: Is it brown?
Rob: Well, kinda.
Megan: It's poop.
(Rob and Lissa burst into laughter)
This kid is a nut.
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Apparently, Roger Ebert gave a review for a movie I didn't even know existed: eXpelled with Ben Stein. eXpelled is a movie about Intelligent Design and how the scientific community is censoring them. I'd recommend this as a must-read review regarding the topic, regardless of whether you believe in Intelligent Design as science or not. http://blogs.suntimes.com/ebert/2008/12/win_ben_steins_mind.html
As an aside, I'd really be interested in talking to someone that has an argument for how ID is science. Too often I hear that ID is persecuted, and that we should teach controversy, but no one has ever been able to explain to me how the scientific method applies. The door is open if someone would like to help enlighten me.
(A small thank you to Mr. Bergen's beloved for helping me stumble upon this.)
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I was thinking today that it sucks to make a pandora's box-type of choice - one where the consequences of taking an action may end up far outweighing the good of taking that action. When stuck in a situation where the consequences of taking the action or not might be close to the same, I'm left with the feeling of never knowing if it was better to take the action or not take the action because once the moment has passed I'm going to tend to regret not doing the other thing anyway.
But as I sat here and thought about it, it occurred to me that I run into a lot of these unwinnable situations. Now I'm starting to wonder if maybe the problem is not at the moment of the decision, but rather that I didn't work more or think harder about the decision before I had to make it. Maybe I'm letting myself fall into these traps, when an easier path was always available to me that I just couldn't see.
Despite the fact that I went ahead and acted today, and already regret making that decision, it was a good feeling to start working out how not to get myself in these predicaments in the first place. There's plenty for me to ponder for today.
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I think that I may well be in love with the nearly 2.6 million people that voted early in NC. Thanks to you, it took me fourteen minutes to vote from the time I parked my car in the parking lot to the time I got the kids buckled back in and started the car. Yes, fourteen minutes with two wild kids (though they did really good today). Fourteen. Early voters, you guys rock.
Thanks.
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Lissa and I talked about voting early a few weeks back, but ultimately we decided that we wanted to do it on Election day when we had the kids, so that we could make the attempt to impart the importance of voting and elections with them. It sounds kind of silly as I say it now, but I do feel strongly about giving them a chance to see what voting is all about.
I listened to a few members of my friendslist discuss the importance of understanding judicial elections and local candidates, so I did my best to research all the way to the bottom of the card. Unfortunately, for my county I found this very difficult to do. I could find no candidate information other than local address for either Soil and Water Conservation Superintendent. I'm not even clear which one is the incumbent, though each party has claimed one of the two candidates on their pull cards. There are five candidates for Board of Education on the ballot, but apparently in early October the first candidate listed asked to be removed from the ballots (he was not in time to be taken off the ballot). The GOP endorses two of the remaining four while the Dems endorse another one. Again, there is no information other than address about any of the candidates, save that at least in this case the local Educator's Assoc. endorsed the two republican candidates and the newspaper revealed the democrat candidate has multiple felonies for driving on a suspended license. So, I'm going to go with the educator's endorsement here, and my apologies to the gentleman (who also has the very unfortunate last name of Rape) that did not go with a political party for not discovering more about him.
Last but not least, there was no immediate information to be found about my district judge, so I'm voting for the incumbent. It appears that there are no appreciable complaints about the justice system in this county, and given that, I'm not inclined to rock the boat by bringing in someone new.
Overall, on the ballot I voted for 11 Republicans and 18 Democrats, making this the most moderate ballot I've ever cast. Incidentally, I also felt like I was the most informed on downticket races than I've ever been at election time as well. Hopefully the lines tomorrow won't be too long for us, but I do hope that everyone who wants to participate turns out and casts their vote.
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It seems at times that it is more challenging for me to write a post on livejournal than it is to do any other daily task that I have...and I have no idea why that is the case.
If my day could be summed up in two songs, they would be: Realize and I'm Yours. Coming up soon is our seventh anniversary for megansmommy and I. I don't think anyone ever tells you things like, you know what, changing your life to be in a committed marriage is really hard to sustain....and it is at all times an exhausting and amazing experience to raise kids (that will make that first item even more difficult)...and there is no single guidebook to how you can traverse through the challenges of intimacy, trust, parenting, friendship, work, and everything else without getting bumped and bruised along the way.
Okay, so maybe Dr. Seuss told me everything I needed to know, but it's difficult to realize what it means to get left in a lurch or stuck in a slump when your only a few years into this world. So today is not quite the day, but I'm close to having escaped the waiting place. Boom bands are playing for me on Monday; when I can tell Lissa that we've made it seven years.
And each one has been the best, except for those ones that weren't. I've always said that I'd rather be lucky than good, and while I've been working hard to add good to my resume, luck has held out to date in giving me two beautiful daughters, a wife that loves me despite pulling way more than her share of the load, and a safe home. There is this bad economy thing floating around outside my world, but I hadn't noticed because I've been taking the time recently to stop and enjoy the moment.
These moments are good. Thanks for leaving your whole life almost eight years ago to come marry me, Lis. I love you.
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If you are not currently registered to vote and would like to be, declare yourself will give you the current requirements for being a registered voter in each state, and a link to how to register.
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In the league of annual pocket fleecing, I once again suffered through an interminably long football draft for my fantasy team. I was just about as unfortunate as possible in getting the ninth pick out of a twelve team draft, but I still think I managed to do all right with it. Though, some measure of my fantasy success revolves around two former NFC North players looking like their old selves while playing for the New York Jets. I can safely say this is the first time I've ever had a reason to cheer for the J-E-T-S, and I think I'll be all right if it turns out to be my last. Anyway, here's what a guy can do when trying to make a game out of the 9th pick (Start: 1 QB, 2 RB, 2 WR, 1 WR/TE, 1 DEF, 1 K Bench: 6 slots)
1. Frank Gore, SF - Yes, he's had injury concerns in the past and his quarterback is questionable, but his hands and running ability couldn't be passed on at this spot.
2. Terrell Owens, DAL - Here's hoping he keeps his head together for another year.
3. Thomas Jones, NYJ - Will the Chicago Bears' Thomas Jones please stand up?
4. Santonio Holmes, PIT - I passed on Anquan Boldin for this pick, but I've had Boldin for four years straight and I'm done with that.
5. Jonathan Stewart, CAR - Did you see that Redskins game the other night? WOW.
6. Dwayne Bowe, KC - He may have no receiving or quarterback support, but that was true last year and he almost had 1,000 yards.
7. Brett Favre, NYJ - Please play like last year and not two years ago. Thanks.
8. Vikings D/ST, MIN - Someone picked the Bears before the Vikes. Only one of these two has looked like last year's defense so far.
9. Aaron Rodgers, GB - Thought I might want to handcuff Favr....what do you mean they play on different teams now?
10. Ray Rice, BAL - In Cam Cameron we trust. In McGahee's condition and knee we do not.
11. Bryant Johnson, SF - Ride on the Martz-train - oooh ahhhh eeeeh ahhhh oooooh ahhh.
12. Jerious Norwood, ATL - Maybe he'll pan out, but this is really just drop fodder for my kicker's bye week.
13. Reggie Williams, JAX - Ditto.
14. Shayne Graham, CIN - Mamas, don't let your babies pick a K and DEF with the same bye week. Dang, that sucks, but he was the best kicker available. I really wanted Josh Brown - a slight step down but on a different off-week. That's what I get for picking him last, I suppose.
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I had a fun five minutes on my nearly hour-long commute this morning as Beck came on the air to discuss his new album. I found myself really enjoying his new song Modern Guilt as he talked about his music and place in it over the past fifteen years. It was a good listen, and a wonderful reminder of something I tend to forget when I think of Beck: I actually do like him. I will readily admit that I gave away Mellow Gold a long time ago, and have never bought another Beck album. I have on occasion actually mistaken a Beck song for a Ween song. I also have been known to more often than not skip ahead to something else if any of Beck's songs come on the radio. I can't explain why I don't much care to listen to the music...there are little cues that can tend to rub me the wrong way - like the distortion of his voice in the mic or a weird or unnecessary electronic beat thrown in with his guitar. Sometimes, either due to laziness or actual forced effort, I push past and find myself singing along to Beercan, and having fun doing it.
So...still not posting with any regularity. I'm really not sure how to fix this other than just force myself to type about things I'm purposefully avoiding. Mostly, that's the stuff in my life relating to distracted attention and depression - two topics I'm not all that keen on just laying out in the open. I keep telling myself I'll talk about it more once I figure out a way to create a healthy discussion, but I struggle with not wanting to sound like the person plagued with dark thoughts. I really want to be the person that overcomes and copes with life despite the depression. Most days I'm more than fairly functional, and I think that story is more interesting and compelling than the days when I have a hard time even getting up.
My best depression fighter continues to be my family, and that's affected some choices we've been making recently. I more or less turned down an exciting job offer (more or less means I wouldn't agree to travel requirements) to re-enter the government advocacy field because it was going to take me away from Lissa and the kids for at least a few months to a year at first, and then possibly have me away from all of them with little or no notice. I just couldn't accept that. I need to keep working, and need to get back to doing something I love doing, but not at the expense of dance recitals, play dates, pool outings, and piggy-back rides. I don't want to miss the days where Megan's teachers tell me she's so advanced in her fine motor skills that they've begun displaying her artwork on the wall for themselves. I don't want to miss watching Emily do the "toddler-run" to fly into Lissa's arms. You couldn't pay me enough to live my life away from our family.
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Sometimes I get bummed at how bad I've gotten with posting to my livejournal. Sometimes I don't want to post just another "I'm bummed" post....because I don't want to create this impression that nothing's ever going well in my world. Generally, everything has been really good for a long time. Even with bad work stuff, my life has generally been on a high the past year at least.
We've gotten settled into the house pretty well. We're very nearly financially stable. I have great people that I work with that I see a lot, and even better people that I call friends that I see rarely if ever. The kids continue to amaze me at every turn; they're getting so big, and are so smart, and they love Lissa and I so much.
I'm just really busy a lot of the time. My head is always cloudy - Lissa thinks my ADD is getting worse than it used to be, and that plays a part in it. It takes me a long time to get things done. I'm still working on that issue, but not sure if I'm ready to throw medicine at it yet.
I have been throwing new medicine at my allergies: Zeramyst or somesuch. I've never - EVER - been a fan of nasal sprays, but I can't argue with both its simplicity (about a quarter-spray of what I'm used to) and its effectiveness.
See, I'm proving to myself that I can post, even if about inane stuff. Maybe I'll get around to writing about why I finally decided to vote for Obama or something really crazy like posting recipes of good things we've made recently. We shall see. (PLEASE BRAIN, DO NOT LET ME GO 3+ WEEKS WITHOUT POSTING AGAIN. I'll let you go back to your shiny distractions and you can continue to let the rest of the body be controlled by the stomach).
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I figure that since I've been averaging about a post a month recently, pretty much all of the day to day events I enjoy or dread have been left off the average update. So, I thought I'd at least recalibrate thanks to a little nudge from trillian42. 1. First Name: Rob 2. Age: 30 3. Location: Charlotte, NC 4. Occupation: Heh. Um, okay - subject to change is an understatement here. So I'll jump forward just slightly and say Consultant. More to come? 5. Kids: Two - Megan is almost 4 and Emily just turned 2 yesterday. Bounce houses and waterslides were involved. 6. Brothers/Sisters: One older sister. She's 36 and lives close to my parents. I think she suffers greatly from bad decisions in her life, and I wish there was a way for me to make her life better. 7. Pets: Dizzy the dalmatian, at the spry age of 14. She's really changed from mature dog to old dog in the past year; I don't think we've got a lot of time left. 8. List the 3-5 biggest things going on in your life: Working on getting my next job has been a huge time and energy investment. We've also been spending a lot of time in trying to get our finances together right now while gas prices have been high and everything seems to cost too much. Getting Megan to start dance. 9. Where and for what did you go to school?: BS in Chemical Engineering from the University of South Carolina and MS in Engineering Management from the University of North Carolina - Charlotte. 10. Parents?: My parents are both still working and live in Columbia, SC. Dad's had some genetic health issues catch up with him recently, but Doctors and medications have kept his life normal. Lissa's Mom lives in our neighborhood while Lissa's Dad lives in Virginia beach. Both retired. 11. Who are some of your closest friends? I don't know who's a close friend anymore, really. I'd love to say Witt, Jonathan, Tim, Alan, and James....they're all good friends, but as the daily grind of my life has kept us from each other by schedule and proximity, I'm willing to bet that I fall short of best friend on each of their lists. Which can easily lead me to depressed thoughts for weeks at a time. I'm almost ready to promote my ex-boss and current cellmate Brian up to close friend status, but some card games and sports may be in order first. 12. Significant other(s)?: Lissa and I will hit our seven year anniversary this fall. I think we've really hit our stride in the past year to two years. More love, more trust, more stability, more...er, extracurricular activities.
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| 2008-05-24 00:53 |
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I'm off to the beach for a week, and I hope to be really back when I get back.
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Ack, one day I will remember not to kill my post as I'm just about to make it. I think we need to turn this into a bad joke: Expect Rob to eat his well thought out, heartfelt post at least once before each bi-weekly or longer post. I feel so livejournal stupid right now it's not even funny.
Someone please point me to the icon that most represents ineptness. I need to add it to my list.
I'm suffering a terrible disease of nostalgia right now. I want to blame it on the catch-all fact that I've turned 30 recently, but I don't know if that's what I can attribute this feeling to. I've been thinking about a lot of people, all clustered in these unique stages of my life, that I don't have any kind of contact with anymore. And the shame is that many times, none of those people ever had contact with anyone I do interact with now. So, once they start to slip away....they're just gone out of my life. No powers of google-fu, or my creation of a facebook, or this livejournal, or anything else has so far helped me bring them back into my circle.
And I'm scared that maybe it's because I can't handle having the size friend's circle I want to have. I'm about five years overdue on an email back to Leigh. I managed to track down Jonathan Megginson and drag him back into my life - and for what? - I didn't email enough and I lost him to the ether again. Natalie deserves a really good, long-written email that is five months behind and will probably push further than that. I've not exactly been the poster child for upholding my end of the relationship. But I want this - I may not have ever shown it, or said it, but there are a lot of people that stay in my thoughts...that I wish were more represented in my life.
I haven't been really good about putting the personal stamp of my touch on things. Not here in livejournal, not in email, through the phone, or in letters. So, if I want this I need to make changes. Life is busy, but (albeit a bit longer after being eaten by my elite posting skills) this post only took a few minutes. I need to get away from the screen of work and life being too busy. Yeah, it f'ing is, but that's no excuse for good friends.
Lj-friends, all of you, I think about you and keep you in my thoughts. Even when I don't post and I don't comment, I try to keep track and wonder how you're doing. Yates, I really wonder how you're doing man. Nyssa, did I read it right that you're engaged? Dare I say I haven't sad congrats? Shame on me for that. Everyone, don't think you're not important. You are very important, and dear. Thanks for reading this.
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Okay, so it's not as glamorous as Pi day. I'm a bit behind. Perhaps I should add an....'of course'...to that.
Birthday!
Okay guys, apparently I am the most clueless and gullible person on the planet. You would not have to try hard to get one over on me. At least, that's what I've come to realize after megansmommy and chioubacca teamed up to get me out of the house so my birthday could become the surprise variety. It was really awesome to see a lot of old friends like Yoni and Aaron, and I'd just been lamenting a few weeks earlier that it had been a long time since I'd gotten to see pi216 or wattage. The whole thing was really cool though, and save for a little intrafamily flap, I think everyone had a great time.
It's the most wonderful time of the year!
Yes, it's tax time again. You know, for the first time in my life, we will actually be paying federal taxes back. I guess it came as somewhat of an initial shock to me, but considering our housing mess last year we didn't have quite the deductions we've had in the past. In all, I think it's going to be about $2k that we'll pay, which after the initial shock of payment, wasn't all that bad. For the record, it didn't diminish my love for doing our taxes just because we have to pay this time. Sometime in the next week I'll get to do two more sets of taxes, and then it'll be a whole year before 2nd Christmas comes again.
Man, I love crunching numbers.
Anything else?
Well, I think a lot of my day to day rotuines have been fairly mundane recently. However, it's pretty easy for things to be mundane when the kids are doing well, life with Lissa is like a dream, and our house is really coming together. I don't think my stress levels have been this low in years. It feels good - I'd like to keep that up, okay?
It must be because I turned 30, but I've been feeling very nostalgic at times now. Lissa and I have both been talking about our pasts and falling out of touch with friends. It wasn't my new year's resolution, but I'm thinking that belatedly I want to try to reach out and get back in touch with my favorite people from high school and college. I've been VERY tempted to get a facebook and myspace pages. I think it would be fun, but the tradeoff will be giving up a bit of the internet anonymity I've cultivated. Then again, who am I kidding? It's hard to have any anonymity when there's only one Wyrrlen out there in the world. So I guess I should just go ahead and do it.
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I'm still alive...it's just been a crazy month with work, and I'm starting to suffer burnout. Great updates won't come today, but three weeks ago I did have an amazing surprise 30th birthday party that I'll want to tell you more about. Soon.
Also, Emily has said her first fully enunciated five-word sentence: "Thank you my sweet Daddy." *melts*
Pony, anyone?
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Just so you know, for my last day as a twentysomething...
I started with cake for Breakfast followed by Reese's cups and candy bars. I'm going out with a bang, baby. EDIT: French fries eaten. What a rebel. ;)
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